Hey guys so i’m finally 20 and I am super super excited. Here’s a few things that I think being 20+ is all about….(inspiration from judge Judy). Her video is attached at the bottom.
The truth is not everyone of us loves themselves. I mean we all say we do but i don’t think that is necessarily true. If you truly love yourself then you would do something everyday that makes you a better person. For example: Going to the gym, starting that YouTube channel/blog, modelling maybe? all i am saying is. if you really love yourself then everything you do should be directed to making you proud of yourself. Love yourself Hun!
PROTECT YOUR JOY!
Everyone wants to be happy but why is it that sometimes you put on hold these things that excite you for the sake of other people? Honestly you need to remember that your joy comes first and it doesn’t matter who gotta go. Do not compromise! be it in friendships, relationships or anything business related. Protect your joy at all cost.
LEARN TO LET GO
I know it’s easier said than done but honestly this is something that i have recently understood its importance. Truth is no one was born with you and therefore there is nothing wrong if you part ways with them. Letting go is a very important thing to do because eventually everything gets better. Don’t be vengeful or bitter! its not worth it.
BE A WILD SPIRIT
This is even a challenge to me but it’s one of my new year resolutions that i am very determined to achieve. Being a wild spirit is all about being spontaneous and not necessarily only in terms of travelling or turning up(lol). But really even in doing something that you really want to do but you feel scared. It’s all about saying “so what if things go wrong? at least i tried” I honestly think people with this mentality always have a good life with barely any regrets.
LOVE AND BE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR FRIENDS
No matter what anyone would say; I personally believe that friends play a very big role in your life. They encourage you and listen to some of your issues that barely make any sense sometimes. Don’t forget to remind your friends how grateful you are for them.
DON’T FORGET TO PRAY
Lastly and the most important thing always remember to pray. Although I am not a very religious person unfortunately; I do know that there is a God somewhere who listens to us and our frustrations. No matter what religion you belong to; it is important to keep in touch with your creator.
Feel free to comment down below what else you think the 20’s are all about. This is what judge Judy had to say